Frequently Asked Questions
What services do you offer?We offer experiences for men, women and couples, from intimate dates and dinners to exploring fantasies together. We particularly enjoy bondage, role play, cuckolding, dressing up, power dynamics and light BDSM.
Every experience is different and shaped around mutual chemistry, curiosity and comfort.
Do I need to have experience with kink?Not at all.
In fact, we love meeting people who are simply curious. You don't need to know the terminology, own anything special or arrive with a perfectly formed fantasy.
Tell us what intrigues you, how you'd like to feel, or what you've always wondered about. We can explore from there.
Can I tell you about a fantasy?Please do. It's one of our favourite parts.
You can share as much or as little as feels comfortable when you enquire. There is never any judgement or assumption that sharing a fantasy means it has to happen.
You can be completely honest with us.
Do you see men, women and couples?Absolutely. Men, women and couples are all warmly welcome.
For us, attraction is about far more than a particular type. Personality, openness and chemistry matter much more.
Are you actually a couple?Very much so.
We're a genuine couple and the chemistry you see between us is real. Anya is naturally more submissive and Alex naturally more dominant, and exploring that dynamic together is something we genuinely enjoy.
Can I meet just Anya or Alex?Our experiences here are designed around meeting Anya & Alex together.
If you're drawn to one of us in particular, you're very welcome to tell us. Part of the fun of a duo experience is that the dynamic doesn't have to be perfectly equal.
What happens on a first date?That depends on you.
Some dates begin with a drink or dinner; others are more private from the beginning. We'll have already spoken about what you're looking for, so there is no pressure to arrive and suddenly explain everything.
Once we're together, we like to let things unfold naturally.
Can we meet for dinner first?We'd love that.
Dinner dates are one of our favourite ways to meet. Good food, wine, conversation and flirting give us a chance to get comfortable with one another before seeing where the evening takes us.
How do I get started?Complete the booking form on our Contact page and tell us a little about yourself, your preferred date, location and what you have in mind.
The more information, the better. It helps us understand you and imagine the experience together.
Do you require screening?Yes. All new friends are screened before a booking is confirmed.
It's simply about keeping everyone safe and comfortable. Any personal information shared with us is treated discreetly and confidentially.
Is a deposit required?Yes. A 20% deposit secures our time together once screening has been completed.
Full information about deposits, cancellations and rescheduling can be found on our Etiquette page.
What if I'm nervous?That's completely fine, and probably more common than you imagine.
We're both naturally warm and empathetic, and making someone feel comfortable is important to us. There is nothing you need to perform or prove.
A little nervous excitement can be rather lovely anyway.
What should I wear?Whatever makes you feel good.
For dinners, smart and stylish is always appreciated. For private dates or fantasies, we can discuss outfits beforehand if they're part of what you have in mind.
And yes, our own wardrobe is rather extensive.
Will my booking be discreet?Always.
Privacy and trust are fundamental to what we do. Your personal information, conversations and time with us remain private, and we ask for the same discretion in return.
What makes Anya & Alex different?We're not two strangers brought together for a booking. We're a real couple inviting you into a chemistry and dynamic that already exists.
We're playful, empathetic, open minded and genuinely fascinated by what makes people tick.
Come with a fantasy, come with curiosity, or simply come as yourself.